Feelings hurt over BM choice!

So I just got off the phone with my girlfriend  who I have known for 6 years, we kind of have drifted apart the past 3 years.  She moved to Vegas but we chat on the phone or Via-email. She seems to call me when she is upset or needs to talk.  I love her and apprecite her friendship. 

That being said I have a dilemma....... She just told me that her feelings are hurt that she is not in my line she went on to say that we have more history than me and my MOH.  Then she asked if it was possible to still be in the wedding! I am totally caught off guard so I stammer and tell her that I love her and that I am sorry her feelings are hurt and that I'll look into David's to see if they still have the  Bm dresses in stock. 

Now I should have been honest and told her that  for one I wasn't in her line when she got married  and my feelings were a little hurt but I didn't say anything because I respected her choice.  I also should have told her  that I made my decision and that is to late in the game to switch it up.  But I didn't so I have found myself in a bit of a predicament! What should I do?  I already have the BM's dresses and ordered all of the Bouquets.   Geez this is the last thing I need to be stressed about.  TIA for all of your advice ladies!!!

I agree with what Ray47 said about explaining it to her. I had a BM kinda guilt me into it because she's was my roomie for two years. Even though I feel like we're definitely not as close as we used to be, I asked her because she kinda hinted and I felt bad. While I am now glad I asked, at the time, it really frustrated me to feel bad about what should've been my own decision. So if that is how you feel (having already prepared everything and all) go with it. It's your wedding after all. Have her do a reading (which I think is a big honor as well) or be in charge of the guestbook, handing out programs, etc.  Good luck!

Remember IT IS YOUR DAY. With her being married she should remember that as well. You need to decide if 10 yrs down the road you can look at your photos and be glad with who's in them. We kept one of two, of my FI step bros out of our wedding cause we can't trust him and we don't want him to ruin our wedding. He's a f**k up to say the least. (and his wife hates me) I didn't want the attention on him. That may also be why she wants to be in the wedding, attention. But you know her better. My MOH ended up un-asking a BM cause she ended up wanting everything be about her and ruining the experience from my MOH. She felt bad cause she introduced her to her husband but people change and she wasn't that great of a friend any more. Some people are just like that, they can't be 100% happy for others.